"Breaking up" sounds too positive. There's really nothing positive about it or at least anything visible when you're in the thick of it. After spending three years of your life with someone that you thought of as a potential spouse, breaking up is basically tearing your whole life apart and stomping on it. Until everything you know and are comfortable with is shattered. And at this point I'm talking irreparable. Hopeless.
Now throw an upcoming birthday, Christmas, New Year's, and what would've been your anniversary into the mess. I am certainly not moving up. At all. I'm breaking down. Spiraling like a bird shot out of the sky. Yep, that's me.
Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this. :( Break ups (or breakdowns - I like that better!) are no fun to go through. Just know that this part of your life is going to make you stronger, and try to focus on the positive in your life as much as possible. Hang in there!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry! i had to go through this (still going through it) all November. It sucks, i know. it is a breakdown. i recommend the new Florence + the machine album, dancing, and a lot of coffee :) hoping for the best for you!
ReplyDeleteSeparations are SO hard. I was with the same man for 9 years, married for 2 of those years, and when it didn't work out -- it was SO hard. But you will get through it and come out on the other side stronger, more confident, and more fabulous than ever. I promise. Sending you hugs & support!
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i'm so sorry you have to go through this! break ups are no fun at all, and i can't imaging having to deal with it during the holidays. just keep your chin up pretty girl! we're all rooting for YOU. <3
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear that :(
ReplyDeleteLike larissa said, keep your chin up!
sending happy vibes your way!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, I can't imagine breaking up with my boyfriend of three years. It's sad to think about and I definitely look up to people who can get past it and grow from it. I'm here if you ever need to talk. <3
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, Kels :( And what a shitty time for sure. I broke up with my bf of 4 years, 2 years ago... And I'm finally in a place where I can tell you that it will be ok. Sending you lots of love, and I'm always here if you need a friend <3
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry hun :( I know there's not much I can say right now that will mend your broken heart. You probably just want to crawl in your bed and just cry for the next few days, and that's OK. The family and friends in your life are going to be there to lift you up during this time. That's their job. Try to smile, ok? Time will heal all wounds.
ReplyDeleteYou are amazing. I know how much this sucks right now, but you will come out of this stronger and better. I swear!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. ;( I know the feeling. It sucks. ;( It will be better soon. ♥♥♥
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